Got your coffee (or tea?)
I want to talk about four words that can keep talented people waiting much longer than they probably should:
“You're on the right track.”
It sounds good, doesn't it?
Especially when you've been working toward a promotion.
You're taking on more responsibility.
You're delivering results.
You're helping the team.
You're doing work that may already look a lot like the next-level job.
Then comes the conversation.
You ask about advancement.
And you hear:
- “Next cycle.”
- “Let's revisit this after year-end.”
- “We definitely see leadership potential in you.”
- “Just keep doing what you're doing.”
So you do.
You work harder.
You take on another project.
You mentor someone.
You solve another problem.
Six months later, you sit down again.
And somehow…
the conversation sounds almost exactly the same.
That's when I think we need to stop listening only to the encouragement and start looking for the clarity.
Because compliments are wonderful.
But compliments don't change your title.
Compliments don't increase your responsibility formally.
Compliments don't create a development plan.
And, let's just say it:
Compliments don't show up in your paycheck.
Take another sip.
This isn't about walking into your manager's office and demanding a promotion.
And it certainly isn't about assuming you're entitled to one simply because you've worked hard.
Promotions aren't participation trophies.
There may be legitimate reasons you're not ready yet.
There may be skills you still need to develop.
There may not be an available position.
Budgets may be tight.
The organization may genuinely need more time.
All of those things can be true.
But here's what I believe good leadership owes people:
Clarity.
If someone isn't ready, tell them why.
If they're missing a skill, identify it.
If they need a particular result, define it.
If there's no position available, say that.
If the timeline is realistically 12–18 months, don't keep implying it might happen next quarter.
People can make surprisingly good decisions when they're given honest information.
What wears people down isn't always hearing no.
Sometimes it's never being given an answer at all.
So if you're pursuing advancement, I think there are three things you should eventually be able to identify:
The criteria.
What specifically must you demonstrate to be considered ready?
Not “keep doing great work.”
What does ready actually look like?
The timeline.
When will this realistically be evaluated?
Not someday.
Not eventually.
What's the next meaningful decision point?
And finally:
The decision-maker.
Who actually has the authority to make this happen?
Because sometimes the person encouraging you isn't the person who can promote you.
That's important information.
And here's where this conversation gets uncomfortable.
If you've asked those questions once and the answers are fuzzy, maybe that's understandable.
Organizations aren't perfect.
Managers don't always have every answer immediately.
But if you keep asking…
and nobody can define the criteria…
nobody can give you a realistic timeline…
and nobody seems willing to own the decision…
the ambiguity itself is information.
That doesn't necessarily mean quit tomorrow.
It doesn't mean become bitter.
It doesn't mean stop doing good work.
It means stop treating a vague possibility like a guaranteed future.
There's a difference between being patient and being parked.
And talented people can spend years parked because someone keeps reminding them how much “potential” they have.
There's another side of this conversation for leaders.
If you manage people, please be careful with promises you don't have the authority, or intention, to keep.
Don't use a future promotion to motivate someone today if you don't know whether that promotion is possible.
Don't keep moving the finish line.
And don't tell someone:
“Just keep doing what you're doing.”
if what they're currently doing isn't actually enough to get them where they want to go.
Give them something useful.
- “You're strong here.”
- “You need development here.”
- “This is the result I need to see.”
- “This is the experience you're missing.”
- “This is when we'll review it.”
And sometimes the most respectful thing you can say is:
“I don't see that opportunity becoming available here in the timeframe you're hoping for.”
That's a hard conversation.
But it's an honest one.
And honesty allows people to make decisions about their own careers.
False hope doesn't.
Here's what I'm thinking about over coffee this Thursday:
Your career needs more than compliments. It needs clarity.
If you've been promised “next time” once, keep developing.
If you've heard it again, start asking better questions.
What are the criteria?
What's the timeline?
Who makes the decision?
And what, specifically, needs to happen between where I am today and where I want to be?
Then listen carefully to the answers.
Or the lack of them.
Because sometimes the answer isn't hidden in what people tell you.
It's hidden in what nobody is willing to tell you.
Know your value.
Keep growing.
Keep delivering.
Be patient when patience makes sense.
But don't put your career indefinitely on hold waiting for someone else to eventually decide it's your turn.
Potential doesn't pay you.
And at some point, “someday” needs to become a plan—or you may need to start considering what else is possible.
That's what's on my mind over coffee today.
Keep leading with strength and living on purpose friends.
-srt
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