The past three days, I have had the privilege of volunteering at our local high school, where I helped students prepare for job interviews through a series of mock interviews. We spent three days together, two hours each day—and I left inspired by their energy, their potential, and their desire to make a great first impression.
These sessions weren’t just about resumes and practice questions. They were about building confidence, presence, and professionalism—skills that many adults still work on throughout their careers.
Here are a few key takeaways I shared with the students that apply to anyone preparing for an interview, whether it’s your first or your fiftieth.
1. Be Careful of Verbal Crutches
We all have them—those little words we lean on when we’re nervous or thinking out loud:
“Like…” “Um…” “You know…” “Basically…”
They’re common, but they can be distracting. They often give the impression that you’re unsure or unprepared, even when you’re not.
Tip: Practice your responses out loud and record yourself. The more aware you are of your verbal habits, the easier it is to replace them with purposeful pauses or clear transitions.
2. Make Eye Contact
Eye contact signals confidence and engagement. It says: “I’m present. I’m listening. I respect your time.”
Avoid staring, of course—this isn’t a staring contest—but aim to hold natural, steady eye contact when you’re speaking or listening. If you’re on a panel interview, be sure to shift your attention between each person thoughtfully.
3. A Good Handshake Still Matters
Even in an increasingly virtual world, the power of a solid handshake remains. It’s one of the first impressions you make—and it’s often remembered.
A good handshake is firm but not crushing, paired with a friendly greeting and a smile. Practice it with friends or family until it feels natural.
4. Answer the Question—Then Stop
When you’re nervous, it’s easy to ramble. You start answering a question and before you know it, you’re circling the topic without making your point.
Answer clearly. Add context. Then pause. It’s okay to take a breath. Interviewers value clarity and thoughtfulness over overly polished or lengthy answers.
5. Come with Questions for the Interviewer
This is one of the most overlooked parts of interview prep—and one of the easiest ways to stand out.
When an interviewer asks, “Do you have any questions for me?”—they’re not just being polite. They’re testing your interest and engagement. Come prepared with thoughtful questions that show you’ve done your homework and that you care about fit, culture, and contribution.
Some great questions might be:
- What do you enjoy most about working here?
- What does success look like in this role?
- Can you tell me more about the team I’d be working with?
And, please remember, Interviews Are Conversations, Not Interrogations
The mock interviews reminded me of something I wish more people knew: You’re not just being evaluated—you’re evaluating too. You’re seeing if the role, the culture, and the company are a fit for you.
So prepare. Practice. Polish your presence. But also remember to be curious, open, and authentic. That’s where real connection begins.
And to all the students I met: I believe in you. The future is brighter with you in it.
Happy Thursday lovelies,
-srt
P.S. What do you think friends? Have I missed anything you would have added?