18 Books, 3 Months, One Incredible Journey

One of the most rewarding parts of life is the chance to learn and grow—and for me, books are one of the best ways to do just that. From thought-provoking nonfiction to imaginative fiction, each story has brought fresh insight, joy, and curiosity. 

Okay, you curious minds ...you asked about the books I have read already in 2025 (yes, I am on track to beating my 25 in 2025 goal - booyah!) and if I would read any again ... below is the list with a sentence for each.  

Here’s a look at the 18 books that shaped my world so far this year:

1. A Promised Land by Barack Obama
   A thoughtful, candid memoir that dives deep into leadership, hope, and the complexities of public service. Truly inspiring for anyone who believes in change and integrity.
2. Washington by Ron Chernow
   A masterclass in biography. This portrait of George Washington goes far beyond the legend, offering lessons in perseverance, vision, and nation-building.  Seriously though, I kept hearing “One Last Time” from Hamilton over and over while reading.
3. The Three Lives of James Madison by Noah Feldman
   An enlightening read about the evolution of political thought and the birth of American democracy. Madison’s adaptability is a true study in intellectual bravery.
4. We Are All the Same in the Dark by Julia Heaberlin
   A haunting and beautifully written mystery that blends suspense with emotional depth. It explores the power of perspective and the hidden truths in small towns.
5. The Housemaid by Freida McFadden
   A psychological thriller with layers of secrets and suspense. It kept me turning pages while reminding me how appearances can be so deceiving.  Thank you Book Club!
6. Didn't See That Coming by Rachel Hollis
   This one’s all about bouncing back. It’s an empowering read that champions the idea of growth through adversity.
7. The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier
   Short, sharp, and packed with wisdom. It changed how I think about leadership and communication—ask more, talk less!
8. My Sister's Keeper by Jodi Picoult
   A heart-wrenching story that made me reflect deeply on ethics, love, and sacrifice. Picoult’s storytelling is as emotional as it is thought-provoking.
9. The Maid's Secret by Nita Prose
   A follow-up that doubled down on intrigue. We learn about the Grays and the history of the Faberge.  It’s about peeling back layers to find truth in the most unexpected places.
10. Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver
    A modern reimagining of David Copperfield set in Appalachia. It’s raw, powerful, and gives voice to the struggles of a forgotten region.
11. The Unmaking of June Farrow by Adrienne Young
    Mystery and magical realism meet in this captivating story about identity and time. A great reminder that finding yourself can be a winding path. Thank you Book Club!
12. How We Learn to Be Brave by Mariann Edgar Budde
    One of the most inspiring reads of the year. It’s about building courage in the everyday, and it left me with a stronger sense of purpose.
13. The Women by Kristin Hannah
    A gripping historical novel that shines a light on the women who served in Vietnam. It's a tribute to strength, resilience, and untold heroism.
14. The Midnight Library by Matt Haig
    A beautiful meditation on regret, choice, and the infinite possibilities of life. This one hit me right in the soul. Thank you Book Club!
15. Bearing God’s Name by Carmen Joy Imes
    A deep and enriching look into the meaning behind carrying God's name as His people. It offered new understanding and spiritual clarity. Thank you Bridgeway Christian Church Bible Study for this faith moving book!
16. The Wedding People by Alison Espach
    Quirky, heartfelt, and sharply observant. This novel captures the complex dynamics of relationships and the unexpected beauty of connection.
17. The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins
    An energizing, motivational guide to letting go of control and embracing what you can’t change. A breath of fresh air for the overthinkers among us.  I can't praise this book enough! 
18. How Leaders Learn by Novak
    A valuable resource on the psychology of leadership and the ways experience shapes great leaders. It’s full of lessons I’ll carry into both work and life.

What I’ve Learned So Far

These stories have stretched my heart and mind. They’ve reminded me that every life—real or fictional—holds wisdom. Whether I was learning how to lead, finding strength in adversity, or just escaping into a gripping narrative, each book was a step in my personal growth.

Twist my arm for my favorite as there are three (maybe four) that I would read over and over and over again.  Wager a guess to which three in the comments below.  

Here’s to the next chapter. 📖💫

Happy Thursday all,

-srt

Rising Above: How to Work With (and Around) BIG Personalities in Every Part of Life

There’s a truth we don’t talk about enough: BIG personalities don’t disappear after high school. They evolve.

They show up in college group projects, on community boards, in volunteer circles, and sometimes even around the dinner table. These are the people who thrive on being in control — dominating conversations, pushing boundaries, or dismissing others — and no matter where you find them, the impact can feel just as personal.

But here’s the good news: you're not powerless. Not in class. Not in a meeting. Not in life.

Let’s talk about how to stand your ground, protect your peace, and stay empowered when faced with BIG personalities — wherever they show up.

1. Name It Without Shame

BIG personalities don’t always shout. Sometimes, they use sarcasm that cuts too deep, the silent treatment that isolates, or “jokes” that hit below the belt. They may hide behind popularity, seniority, or a leadership role.

But whether it’s the president of a student club, a board member in a nonprofit, or that one peer who talks over everyone — remember this: power moves are not leadership.

Calling out toxic or dominating behavior doesn’t make you weak — it gives you clarity and control.

2. Don’t Shrink — Strategize

People with overpowering personalities often thrive on reactions. They want to feel big by making others feel small.

So instead of getting pulled into their emotional storm, anchor yourself. Stay calm. Speak clearly. Take the high road — but don't be silent.

• In class? “I’d like to finish my thought before we move on.”

• In a club meeting? “Let’s hear from someone who hasn’t spoken yet.”

• In a conversation? “That doesn’t feel constructive — can we focus on a solution?”

You don’t have to match their energy. You just have to own yours.

3. Set Boundaries Like a Boss

Boundaries are not walls — they’re guardrails for respect.

You can be kind and assertive. Compassionate and clear. And sometimes, a simple “That’s not okay with me” is enough to shift the tone.

In school, service, or at home — you deserve to feel safe and heard. Boundaries tell others how to treat you. And the right people? They’ll respect them.

4. Build a Circle That Builds You Back

Dealing with intense personalities can feel isolating. They may make you question your instincts, your voice, even your worth.

That’s why it’s essential to find your people — the classmate who backs you up, the friend who listens without judgment, the mentor who reminds you of your value, the "joy tribe" in your non-profit. You don’t have to navigate it alone.

And here’s the secret: when you speak up, you don’t just empower yourself — you give others permission to do the same.

5. Protect Your Peace Like It’s Sacred (Because It Is)

Your peace is not up for negotiation.

People with overpowering personalities don’t get to define your worth — you do. So take space when you need it. Journal. Meditate. Move your body. Laugh with friends. Set limits. Say no. Say yes — to what feeds your soul.

You don’t need to win every argument. You just need to stay true to yourself.

Final Word: Your Power Was Never Theirs to Take

BIG personalities might be loud, but your calm, your clarity, and your quiet strength? That’s louder.

Whether it’s a dominating peer, an overbearing teammate, or someone who constantly takes up too much space — remember:

You can rise without permission.
You can speak without shouting.
You can be powerful without being cruel.

And when you do? You don’t just protect your peace — you inspire others to stand in their own.

Stand tall. Speak true. And never shrink for someone else’s comfort.

You’ve got this.

Happy Thursday lovelies,

-srt

Helping Students Shine: Readying for Real-World Interviews

The past three days, I have had the privilege of volunteering at our local high school, where I helped students prepare for job interviews through a series of mock interviews. We spent three days together, two hours each day—and I left inspired by their energy, their potential, and their desire to make a great first impression.

These sessions weren’t just about resumes and practice questions. They were about building confidence, presence, and professionalism—skills that many adults still work on throughout their careers.

Here are a few key takeaways I shared with the students that apply to anyone preparing for an interview, whether it’s your first or your fiftieth.

1. Be Careful of Verbal Crutches

We all have them—those little words we lean on when we’re nervous or thinking out loud:

“Like…” “Um…” “You know…” “Basically…”

They’re common, but they can be distracting. They often give the impression that you’re unsure or unprepared, even when you’re not.

Tip: Practice your responses out loud and record yourself. The more aware you are of your verbal habits, the easier it is to replace them with purposeful pauses or clear transitions.

2. Make Eye Contact

Eye contact signals confidence and engagement. It says: “I’m present. I’m listening. I respect your time.”

Avoid staring, of course—this isn’t a staring contest—but aim to hold natural, steady eye contact when you’re speaking or listening. If you’re on a panel interview, be sure to shift your attention between each person thoughtfully.

3. A Good Handshake Still Matters

Even in an increasingly virtual world, the power of a solid handshake remains. It’s one of the first impressions you make—and it’s often remembered.

A good handshake is firm but not crushing, paired with a friendly greeting and a smile. Practice it with friends or family until it feels natural.

4. Answer the Question—Then Stop

When you’re nervous, it’s easy to ramble. You start answering a question and before you know it, you’re circling the topic without making your point.

Answer clearly. Add context. Then pause. It’s okay to take a breath. Interviewers value clarity and thoughtfulness over overly polished or lengthy answers.

5. Come with Questions for the Interviewer

This is one of the most overlooked parts of interview prep—and one of the easiest ways to stand out.

When an interviewer asks, “Do you have any questions for me?”—they’re not just being polite. They’re testing your interest and engagement. Come prepared with thoughtful questions that show you’ve done your homework and that you care about fit, culture, and contribution.

Some great questions might be:

• What do you enjoy most about working here?
• What does success look like in this role?
• Can you tell me more about the team I’d be working with?

And, please remember, Interviews Are Conversations, Not Interrogations

The mock interviews reminded me of something I wish more people knew: You’re not just being evaluated—you’re evaluating too. You’re seeing if the role, the culture, and the company are a fit for you.

So prepare. Practice. Polish your presence. But also remember to be curious, open, and authentic. That’s where real connection begins.

And to all the students I met: I believe in you. The future is brighter with you in it.

Happy Thursday lovelies,

-srt

P.S. What do you think friends?  Have I missed anything you would have added?