Why Waiting for the Perfect Answer Won’t Get Us Anywhere
Constructive confrontation is like that friend who insists on checking everyone’s travel itinerary. It’s not about fighting over who has the window seat; it’s about saying, “I see your point, but what if we’re off track?” Productive disagreements bring every voice to the platform (literally and figuratively) so that we can choose the best train, together.
I know, “confrontation” can sound like we’re preparing for a clash, but here, it’s just honest communication. It’s the courage to say, “I’m not sure about this,” or, “How about another angle?” Constructive confrontation is simply offering up your perspective for the good of the team. Picture it like this: we’re debating the 10:10 or 10:30 departure for our project’s next phase. Constructive confrontation gives us a holistic view of options and stops us from riding the rails based on assumptions.
Once the conversation’s over and we make a call, it’s time to board—no matter what train we chose. Maybe you wanted the 10:30, but the team went with the 10:10. “Disagree and commit” means that even if it’s not your first pick, you’re going to give it your best shot.
And if we waited until everyone was on board with the “perfect” plan, we’d never leave the station! Standing still only means falling behind, especially in our field, where our competitors certainly aren’t waiting. Our success lies in our agility to adapt and keep moving towards our goals—even if it means taking an unexpected turn here or there.
The Waiting Game: Perfection vs. Progress
If we wait for every person to feel 100% ready, or for conditions to be “just right,” we’ll never move forward. Decisions are, by nature, snapshots in time; business needs, markets, and technology all evolve faster than we could ever predict. We make decisions based on the best information we have at the moment, and the rest unfolds as we go.
One of my most challenging (and inspiring) bosses used to say, “Perfection is the enemy of good enough.” This same boss also said, “Even a blind squirrel finds a nut every now and then.” That nugget still resonates! Perfection shouldn’t be the goal—getting to an optimal state is a journey of many steps. Remember, “good enough” is what gets us moving.
If we all waited for the perfect plan, the train would never leave the station. The combination of constructive confrontation, “disagree and commit,” and embracing imperfection is what empowers us to board and keep moving. Making the decision to decide is often the hardest part. And while you may not love every choice, having the courage to commit will ensure we’re always moving forward.
-srt